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How To Become More Confident In Yourself
Written by Kayla Delargy
"How Can I Have More Confidence In Myself?” 
(this blog post contains affiliate links meaning I earn a commission if you use those links. Please read my Terms for more information)
I was a lot like you babe...

I doubted my every step, questioned every single one of my moves, and ultimately showed little to no love to myself.

I was my own worst enemy. Pushing myself to my breaking points, making up stories in my head, and replaying scenarios long after they were over. 

I truly had no self confidence. 

I would catch myself getting so worked up over something I said, that I might not of said… How someone was going to take my response, or what opinion someone had of me. It was all I consumed my thoughts about…

I just wanted to be good enough, in some way or another. Like most of us do…

We all want to be more confident. To walk into a room and own who we are and embrace the connections around us because of this magnetic feeling. But the question still remains for so many of us…

“How do I be more secure and confident? 

How do I feel confident without constant thoughts of self doubt, or limits beliefs getting in the way?”

So today in this blog post I want to share with you ladies something a mentor of mine shared with me at a live training last year that really hit home for me. He said something along the lines of, “Confidence is just the image we portray when we have the training or experience someone else may lack.”
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From my understanding, I took that as “being confident” isn’t what I had always been seeking, it was the experience - the understanding, the training, the ability to do what needed to be done to achieve what I wanted.

So although confidence is the external trait that I think he’s right we see, “the image” but it’s not what confidence actually is… And I think it’s why so many of us struggling, for years, in how to find it.

(AKA me << literally my entire life up until 2018-2019)

Because it comes from facing your fear. From learning the unlearned. To trying something completely new and being okay with being a beginner at it.

…and some of us never face those fears, push those boundaries, and break through the self doubt we can feel.

Don’t let that be you sister. 

Own that as your reality now. I promise you will start to feel confident when you do “the thing” you’ve been wanting or dreaming of doing! 
"Confidence is the ability to feel __(your desire)__ without needing anyone to tell you.” 
HOW TO BE CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF : 7 Simple Steps 
So building off of what I shared above, below you will find an easy, simplified outline that gives 7 tested (by me personally) examples and ideas in building, and creating YOUR desired confident self…

7 ways to feel, and be more confident with yourself : 

#1 - Remind yourself of your Why, your Purpose, your Mission - the gift you feel you were given to share with the Universe

#2 - Own your opinions, and stand behind your decisions. Even through failures, what’s done is done - learn from it, but don’t discredit your journey

#3 - Leave empowering affirmations around you. On your phone, computer, mirror, fridge and use these statements to calm, or ignite the fire inside of you and keep you going

#4 - Take action towards your dreams, and ask questions later. It’s important to remember when becoming a more confident self - that you must be willing to feel the discomforts of the unknown, and challenge the uncertainty of what’s possible 

#5 - Focus on finding solutions. Verse being caught up in what’s not going right, how or who you could have been. A confident self realizes mistakes happen, but results come from being willing to try again

#6 - STOP comparing. You are not her, you aren’t meant to be. You won’t live her dreams, and you won’t create her desired success - but you can create something of your own, off inspired ideas and like-minded values 

#7 - Last but certainly not least, show yourself RESPECT. Don’t talk down to yourself, pick yourself up instead. Give yourself grace, by choosing self love instead of self pity. 

Being confident demands respect, and it matters most when coming from you. 

…and it’s important to remember, this FEELING you will feel from all the work put in, like any feeling will fade if you don’t put in the continuous effort to upkeep it. 

Confidence is a state you cannot fake, and it only comes by practicing and putting in the work.

Tell me, which one is your favorite? Is there one you vibe with most, and are eager to put to the test? 

(share with me in the comment box below!!) 
CONCLUSION : How You Can Have More Confidence In Yourself 
For all of my sisters that are currently struggling with this and are ready to take the proper action in creating real confidence in yourself, and your work… I have a special exclusive invitation that I think would be a perfect fit for you!

If you are looking to grow your confidence level, increase your self worth... or are even looking for ways to become a completely new you…

My Confidence Creator, 30 days to creating confidence challenge is for you! 

The Confidence Creator Challenge is going to help you create the desired confidence you've been searching for through powerful & specific video recording topics. 

YES! You will be recording yourself on camera! But only for personal use. 

These topics are meant to make you feel more comfortable in your own skin, talk about things that matter or are important to you, and help you get use to expressing more vulnerability.  

By the end of the 30 days, you will be walking taller, smiling brighter and feeling more confident than the person who’s reading this today...
 
If you’re on the fence right now sister, I get it. Making a change like this, can be and is a scary one. Because the person you’re going to be at the end, won’t be the person you are today. And that’s a commitment in its own to make.

…but if that type of change in your life is what you’ve been searching for, don’t let this simple, yet effective challenge pass you by! 

The Confidence Creator Challenge is for you if…

#1 - You Are Looking To Build Self Confidence Inside + Out And Increase Your Current Level Of Self Worth

#2 - You Want To Learn How To Put Yourself Out There And Do Things Outside Of Your Comfort Zone

#3 - You Have An Interest In Creating A Brand Or Personal Message, And Gaining Confidence In Sharing It With Other Like-Minded People

You know, when you can look at yourself in the mirror and honestly say, 'Wow girl, you look good AND you feel good too' - change it happening.

If you haven't said that to yourself in a while, girl it's time you do.

Because you are worth it! 

So I guess the question left now is, are you ready to become your most confident self?

Access your Confidence Creator challenge membership HERE << for just $27 today. 

That’s literally less than $1 a day, to become more confident with yourself than ever before. 

Remember sister, you’re worth it!


Until we connect again…

Kayla, xoxo


P.S. Once you join the Confidence Creator challenge, you will gain exclusive access to our private Sisterhood community and have ongoing support during your challenge as well! Get started today HERE << I cannot wait to personally connect with you! 
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How To Become More Confident In Yourself
Written by Kayla Delargy
"How Can I Have More Confidence In Myself?” 
(this blog post contains affiliate links meaning I earn a commission if you use those links. Please read my Terms for more information)
I was a lot like you babe...

I doubted my every step, questioned every single one of my moves, and ultimately showed little to no love to myself.

I was my own worst enemy. Pushing myself to my breaking points, making up stories in my head, and replaying scenarios long after they were over. 

I truly had no self confidence. 

I would catch myself getting so worked up over something I said, that I might not of said… How someone was going to take my response, or what opinion someone had of me. It was all I consumed my thoughts about…

I just wanted to be good enough, in some way or another. Like most of us do…

We all want to be more confident. To walk into a room and own who we are and embrace the connections around us because of this magnetic feeling. But the question still remains for so many of us…

“How do I be more secure and confident? 

How do I feel confident without constant thoughts of self doubt, or limits beliefs getting in the way?”

So today in this blog post I want to share with you ladies something a mentor of mine shared with me at a live training last year that really hit home for me. He said something along the lines of, “Confidence is just the image we portray when we have the training or experience someone else may lack.”
how to become more confident, how to look confident, how to be more confident in yourself, how to become more self confident, how to be more secure and confident, how to develop more self confidence, how can i have more confidence in myself
From my understanding, I took that as “being confident” isn’t what I had always been seeking, it was the experience - the understanding, the training, the ability to do what needed to be done to achieve what I wanted.

So although confidence is the external trait that I think he’s right we see, “the image” but it’s not what confidence actually is… And I think it’s why so many of us struggling, for years, in how to find it.

(AKA me << literally my entire life up until 2018-2019)

Because it comes from facing your fear. From learning the unlearned. To trying something completely new and being okay with being a beginner at it.

…and some of us never face those fears, push those boundaries, and break through the self doubt we can feel.

Don’t let that be you sister. 

Own that as your reality now. I promise you will start to feel confident when you do “the thing” you’ve been wanting or dreaming of doing! 
"Confidence is the ability to feel __(your desire)__ without needing anyone to tell you.” 
HOW TO BE CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF : 7 Simple Steps 
So building off of what I shared above, below you will find an easy, simplified outline that gives 7 tested (by me personally) examples and ideas in building, and creating YOUR desired confident self…

7 ways to feel, and be more confident with yourself : 

#1 - Remind yourself of your Why, your Purpose, your Mission - the gift you feel you were given to share with the Universe

#2 - Own your opinions, and stand behind your decisions. Even through failures, what’s done is done - learn from it, but don’t discredit your journey

#3 - Leave empowering affirmations around you. On your phone, computer, mirror, fridge and use these statements to calm, or ignite the fire inside of you and keep you going

#4 - Take action towards your dreams, and ask questions later. It’s important to remember when becoming a more confident self - that you must be willing to feel the discomforts of the unknown, and challenge the uncertainty of what’s possible 

#5 - Focus on finding solutions. Verse being caught up in what’s not going right, how or who you could have been. A confident self realizes mistakes happen, but results come from being willing to try again

#6 - STOP comparing. You are not her, you aren’t meant to be. You won’t live her dreams, and you won’t create her desired success - but you can create something of your own, off inspired ideas and like-minded values 

#7 - Last but certainly not least, show yourself RESPECT. Don’t talk down to yourself, pick yourself up instead. Give yourself grace, by choosing self love instead of self pity. 

Being confident demands respect, and it matters most when coming from you. 

…and it’s important to remember, this FEELING you will feel from all the work put in, like any feeling will fade if you don’t put in the continuous effort to upkeep it. 

Confidence is a state you cannot fake, and it only comes by practicing and putting in the work.

Tell me, which one is your favorite? Is there one you vibe with most, and are eager to put to the test? 

(share with me in the comment box below!!) 
CONCLUSION : How You Can Have More Confidence In Yourself 
For all of my sisters that are currently struggling with this and are ready to take the proper action in creating real confidence in yourself, and your work… I have a special exclusive invitation that I think would be a perfect fit for you!

If you are looking to grow your confidence level, increase your self worth... or are even looking for ways to become a completely new you…

My Confidence Creator, 30 days to creating confidence challenge is for you! 

The Confidence Creator Challenge is going to help you create the desired confidence you've been searching for through powerful & specific video recording topics. 

YES! You will be recording yourself on camera! But only for personal use. 

These topics are meant to make you feel more comfortable in your own skin, talk about things that matter or are important to you, and help you get use to expressing more vulnerability.  

By the end of the 30 days, you will be walking taller, smiling brighter and feeling more confident than the person who’s reading this today...
 
If you’re on the fence right now sister, I get it. Making a change like this, can be and is a scary one. Because the person you’re going to be at the end, won’t be the person you are today. And that’s a commitment in its own to make.

…but if that type of change in your life is what you’ve been searching for, don’t let this simple, yet effective challenge pass you by! 

The Confidence Creator Challenge is for you if…

#1 - You Are Looking To Build Self Confidence Inside + Out And Increase Your Current Level Of Self Worth

#2 - You Want To Learn How To Put Yourself Out There And Do Things Outside Of Your Comfort Zone

#3 - You Have An Interest In Creating A Brand Or Personal Message, And Gaining Confidence In Sharing It With Other Like-Minded People

You know, when you can look at yourself in the mirror and honestly say, 'Wow girl, you look good AND you feel good too' - change it happening.

If you haven't said that to yourself in a while, girl it's time you do.

Because you are worth it! 

So I guess the question left now is, are you ready to become your most confident self?

Access your Confidence Creator challenge membership HERE << for just $27 today. 

That’s literally less than $1 a day, to become more confident with yourself than ever before. 

Remember sister, you’re worth it!


Until we connect again…

Kayla, xoxo


P.S. Once you join the Confidence Creator challenge, you will gain exclusive access to our private Sisterhood community and have ongoing support during your challenge as well! Get started today HERE << I cannot wait to personally connect with you! 
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business coach for female entrepreneurs, how to be a successful business woman, how to become a successful business woman, how to be a successful woman entrepreneur, how to become a female entrepreneur
Hi babe, I'm Kayla! A fellow Network Marketer, who thrives off self-love and holistic wellness. These days I spend my time helping other Network Marketing chicks create high-converting marketing strategies to sell their products, grow their downline, and massively scale their residual income...

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April 2020
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The Core4 was created to help women become the best version of themselves through different 30 day challenges. Through each challenge hosted, you will be diving deep in redefining what a well-balanced lifestyle means to you. Along this journey will help you identify your limiting beliefs, recognize self doubt and learn the tools to free yourself from those things that no longer serve you. 

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